This pain started during my divorce, when I experienced severe emotional fear, anxiety, & despair, while my local religious community members lied against me in a combined social attack, along with my wife.
The pain started in just below my belly-button, and after a few weeks moved to my lower-right quadrant, near my appendix. The pain can be felt from just below & behind my lowest right rib, all the way down to the right of my perinium.
The pain is often felt for a few hours, and may dissapear for a few hours, constantly cycling.

After I got remarried, and my new wife treated me somewhat well for many months, the pain stayed gone, but when my new wife began badly mistreating me, not letting me sleep at night when I had to work, so that she could yell & swear at me about her perceived lack of love, the pain came back with a vengeance. I was also eating many almond-nut shakes at the time. This time, my appendix was very obviously inflamed, swollen, & even seeping a little. I vomited, had a fever, & could barely walk upright. After she left me, the pain slowly got a little better, but even 2 years after she left me, the pain still hurts on & off.

I'm looking for the ultimate solution to this. Is my appendix detoxing my body? Is it reacting to emotions? My emotions are somewhat centered most of the time. I have aspergers, & so do not have any friends or social network, except for my family which I visit once a month.

I'm trying Aajonus' primal diet, which sometimes seems to help, eating raw meat.

Might Chinese medicine suggest I eat a hunted animal's appendix, to heal my appendix?

Any suggestions, or experience with long-standing appendicitis? I do not want surgery because I believe it's there for a reason, & Mercola's research suggests people do worse off in the long-term after having them removed.

Also, in case they are related, I have other problems: Shortness of breath after working at a cotton factory & my mom smoked, possible minor brain-damage born blue w/ umbilical cord around my neck, drowned when I was 3, blue, lungs full of water, distended lower-gut, high sugar cravings, short-term memory loss/small attention span, aspergers, serious father issues as my father gaslighted me as I was growing up.

Thanks for all suggestions.